Ladies, Don’t Confuse Good Sex for Love

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Why do some women interpret sex with a man as an indication that he loves her? When women feel loved we have a natural response to become vulnerable, open and sexual.

The feeling an orgasm gives is intense, which is why some women might mistake amazing sex for love. It’s possible to have horrible sex with the love of your life and it’s also possible to have mind-blowing sex with a complete stranger.

Women needs are:

  1. Spiritual
  2. Emotional
  3. Physical

Men needs are:

  1. Spiritual
  2. Physical
  3. Emotional

A lot of times a woman would accommodate a man and satisfy his physical needs, but with the expectation that he will meet her emotional needs. Because men are so performance oriented they tend to think that once they have met the physical need (sex) of a woman, it’s “mission accomplished”.

Given the intimate nature of sex, it is easy to see that some women can interpret sex as an act of love or a demonstration of a man’s love for her. Women look to men to get a sense of value, love, or be a part of his life. However, so many ladies suffer from emotional deprivation because her emotional needs were not met after helping her mate meet his physical needs. A woman can go a very long time without having her emotional needs met, and her mate may never even have a clue that something is wrong with her. However, when this happens it can leave a woman vulnerable to another man, even if she never had the thoughts or desire to be with someone else.

Let a man consistently demonstrate, not through cheap words, that sex with you is not just the fulfillment of his primal urge, but also the culmination of his heart-felt love for you.

Don’t let good sex confuse your heart and make you think you’re in love. Sex without love is nothing more than exercise. If you have someone that loves you…appreciate it because ever since sex came easy, love became harder to find.


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